AndyV, today I went skydiving again ( my new fav. thing to do). On preparing to exit the plane I got my feet tangled a little. I reminded myself to slow down and just focus on the task of safely exiting the plane. As I was driving back home from the drop zone (1.5 hours), I had the opportunity to reflect on my current sitch. I came up with this: when I focus on getting down safely before I even get into jump position, I start making mental mistakes. In sky diving you don't get too many of those. If I focus to intently on being married to W and restoring our M , (a safe landing) I forget that first I need to safely exit the aircraft. A mental mistake at 3/4 of a mile is truly fatal. A mistake at this junction in our relationship can be equally fatal. I know i'm rambling a bit but I'm a little drunk now. Anyway you are doing great mate!
