H called when I was out of the house. Told D16 that he was coming over late to sleep downstairs since he has to work tomorrow and there is no power on the boat. Guess he listened to me yesterday when I said I didn't mind him coming over (since it's going to be HIS house anyway), but to please call if he was going to show up at odd times (like 6am or in the middle of the night).
My gut tells me he has a date (that is why he'll be late) and I believe he had a date last night. I wish it didn't bother me!! At least I know there isn't just ONE person to replace me.....he's just searching! Now I really feel I can't believe anything he says and I feel like I need to watch the money now since he's taken out an abnormal amount of our joint checking this past week. Will have to address this with the lawyer.
What is more maddening, though, is why he made plans for Friday AND Saturday and is unavailable to D16. He has known he has to work on Sunday. She made him a cake for Father's Day and has some presents that she bought with her own money. She said she might stay up to see him. Why can't he realize he is hurting her???
D16 and I went to a movie together. I am finding it hard to leave her alone since she already feels deserted by her dad. But then that leaves no time for me to GAL.
Talked to MIL again today and she said she would like to shake H. I think I understand now why H didn't want to tell her.....she is calling everyone even though I specifically asked her to wait for H to talk to her. I look at caller id and say, "Now Grandma called ..."
I know I am spending way too much time thinking about H! I am doing constructive stuff to change jobs and look for a new home. It all takes time. At this point I am working hard at not crying when someone asks how I am.
