ERC, Sorry to high jack your thread but I wanted to apologize to you and any one else that may have been offended by my response to H&A. We are all hurting and I shouldn't have reponded to him in kind. We all process things in our own way, I should have realized that he was going on his own journey and I did not know where he was coming from. Anyway, I wasn't very supportive and I hope he comes back and gets back in the fight. I'll take my humble pie ala mode please!