Keep on hanging in there Amy..... but try not to disappear on him just cause he's pi$$y. You know it's cause of the pain and the stress of not working..... don't let that affect you, rise above it and do something he's not expecting. Grab a pizza and a movie or some stuff to make tacos and just show up after work tonite. Hey, maybe take your laundry with and offer to do his if you can use the machines..... don't forget those unmentionables....
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
Aren't you? You've made so much progress.... you kinda seem to be backing off .... part of his coming to a comfortable place in trusting your relationship may very well be.... seeing that even when he's being ugly and unlovable.... you are there! showing your support in spite of his attitude at the moment.
Just a thought Amy...
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.