Thank goodness you have all found me here and come to post - I so need everyone's help right now.
I know what you are saying about the fact she has to be pretty crazy to show up at our house. I still don't know what to believe. I have now managed to work out the exact timescale of events down to the week the letter arrived. She states H is on holiday for 3 days and that he didn't call her back on Saturday and she would see him at work the following Saturday. I remembered we were going to go away but decided to spend the money on having a wall built instead and I knew I'd taken a picture of S "helping" build the wall with my phone so was able to pinpoint the week that was built. So anyway then I looked back on my thread for when I posted about her being at the house and then that freaky text she sent me. She was at our house the Monday of the following week the letter came!!! She texted me on Thursday of that week!!!
If what my H says is true she is one wierd W with some serious issues. My H is still saying he can't remember what exactly he did about the letter. He remembers being really shocked at receiving it and at its content and says he THINKS he texted her to say he was none too pleased and what on earth was she on about. He cannot remember the reply and says it was never mentioned ever again and he forgot all about it as he just thought it was a silly misunderstanding. (yeah hillarious)
I hardly slept again last night and feel so panicky and unsettled inside like I did when he left. I can't sit still. At the minute I'm thinking maybe he's telling the truth as I have asked him over and over and over and he keeps on saying the same "nothing has ever happened and he doesn't understand why she wrote it".
I really don't know what to do. Part of me wants to just believe him and carry on but the other part of me is afraid to incase he is lieing.
If he is telling the truth I'm still hurt by the fact that he did so little about the letter and didn't cut all contact with her when he realised she was like that.
