What I know is that your husband's infidelity is tied to his alcoholic self. Just stop struggling with whatever drunk girlfriend is getting frantic. Laugh at her. Keep your own good plans visible and going forward.
Reconsider how you react.
I have done. I need to not drink myself, in order to keep a good view of the big picture. Maybe you are the same.
I am trying hard not to turn into a pouty drunk while waiting for my husband to come home! He comes near, but runs away... I still adore him. Love, Flicka
