My wife is having my daughter's 4th birthday party for her family today. She had told me before that I could come if I wanted to, but she didnt sound real thrilled about me being there. I watched my son last night so she could get the party stuff ready and when she came to pick him up today she told me 3 o'clock. So I'm invited \:\) Guess my daughter kept insisting and insisting that her daddy be there. Wife was acting kind of weird towards me today, she was dressed nice today for the party and I told her she looked good, usually she says thanks, but she just kinda looked at me. But other than that she was been getting more and more friendly. Not that she was never not friendly, but just friendly in a business like manner, this week she's been friendly in a more personal manner. She's been calling me lots this week and instead of just saying what she had to say and getting off as quick as she can she has been staying on and chit chatting. She even called this week crying to me about her bad day at work in literal tears, so her coming to me for comfort made me think I am definitely on the right track. Even caught her checking me out when I had my shirt off, haha \:\) Since she left I have lost 25 more pounds and have been lifting weights and working out like a mad man.

Can't look too deep into these developments, but I guess what I have been doing is starting to work. I have just totally backed off this week, have probably talked to her on the phone 20 times this week and all but twice it was her that called me. And most of the time it has been me to end the conversation instead of me just sitting there until she said she had to get off.