As one on the other side of the divorce chasm, it ain't that bad. Really. It's like a loose nut has been foisted off on the world, (of New Zealand in my case) and out of my home and head.
What a relief, really. What a relief. The lying and the WTFs and all of that is gone! Others like my family and friends are still reeling, but I'm good.
It's a blessing really. I out waited the wasband for months, finally got a settlement that I could live with and he couldn't, and it's great!
