Looked at the link Oldtimer. Can anyone translate it into english???????

I make more than him but out of my check comes medical and dental that he does not have. So our checks in the end are just about even. He says he will pay 1/2 of their medical and dental and get his own. As well as 1/2 of their daycare costs. They will be having a babysitter for July and Aug while school is out that he has paid from his ck in the past. There is no way I can even pay half of that. But the kids are too young to be alone, and he would never allow it. He reminded me of a day my son and I were home sick and I left my D7 walk to school alone. He will NEVER forget it or forgive me for it he says. He brought up many incidents he is mad about. I told him it is pointless, like I couldn't do the same to him. I would not lower myself to it.

But what about things like clothes? He has never bought a stitch of clothing for the kids ever. Or shoes, coats, etc, etc., etc. Do I now still continue to purchase these and bill him half for them?

Sorry, this all SUCKS!!! I will scream it from the rooftops!

And sorry, didn't mean to imply all lawyers were nasty. That is just the impression I got, go get him. And that is what everyone tells you as well, "take him for all he's got that bastard!". Like you can get blood from a stone. My luck they'll have me paying him! Over my dead body!!!!!!!


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08