Jen Jam I missed your post some how til now and you know what it sounds fantastic..... ;\) I am empowered and I will not wither this time!
He just called about the directions again and tried to yell at me cause he was lost and the "guy" is waiting for him. NORMALLY I absorb his yelling and take it.... NOT ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He told me yesterday at 5 pm he needed me to look up these directions. And so I did and then I called him several times last nite. He called me at 1:30 am proceeded to stay up until 3:30 am and when I called at 4:55 my time he did not answer it was 5:55 his time. I called again at 5:55 and no answer then he calls back and says hes tired can i call him in 20?
So anyway when I finally spoke to him at 8 he was sweet as pie and I told him this is not like you and he said well they cant boss me around and I can get there when I want,,, I said oh ok well I am not saying they can boss you just that you are more resposible than this and this has gotten way out of hand.
And so when he is essence is blaming me ( like always) and it was too much AND I TOLD HIM THIS.... he has hurt me far too long and blames me for his sh*t far too long ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

Oh so this is my fault? Ok honey I accept the blame for this and cause the guy is waiting. Didnt you tell me when I mentioned this isnt like you that they acn wait and now it is my fault b/c you are running late?
OK.... so when I called you at 5,6 and 8 to wake you and last nite too and you did not want to talk about the directions and last nite you werent available that is my fault? and when you stayed up til 3 am and now you are tired full well knowing you had to work and so thats my fault too? OK ( but with a calm tone that he clearly knows I am not acepting this) thats fine.
I called you last nite to talk about this and you were unavailable now it is my fault very well, I will let you go."

So for me that is 180 extreme I never speak my mind when he acts like a spoiled brat!
God bless...