MY H and I reconciled in August .. he dropped bomb on me May 1st and already had OW,, I found out/confirmed it Fathers Day last year. When I said GOODBYE take care have a good life with her he slowly came back. He has cheated on me sevral times during our R. One time I was so devestated he paid 887.00 dollars for a plane ticke to come see me. And he has been away since April.... he sees me about every two weeks and it used to take him a month before he "missed" me. In MAY alone he flew home two times just called and said book me a flight and he would be home and he would not get phone calls at all, I dont get it. and then I just flew to see him last weekend. So I just dont get it. So almost three times in a month. And he just arrived in COLUMBUS on THURSDAY so she must have met him that day? or before I dunno.
She did say to him thursday nite you lied you no call me. then yesterday at 10 am CALL ME! then at 9:45 pm "XXXXXXXXXXXX XXXXXXXXXXX my A** CALL ME!!!!!!!!!!!!" and he hates to be bossed around. So what I gather is he was "wasted" when he talked to her and now he regrets it. And yeah I am stuck cause he does not need to know I snooped. Weird thing is my Intuition used to go off like a police siren and now it was nothing.. Ijust checked his VM for the hell of it. And when I went to see him he had me take care of his phone the whole time it was either charging in the truck, in my purse and I even took it with me for hours. I do not get this at all. And I am far too naive to put the pices together. Please help. I know it was NOTHING, and still maybe I am just so used to it I am lying to myself. I dunno I feel angry and lost but no matter what I am still strong as hell thank GOD for that really. Thanks for helping.... this would happen to me when COG is out of town. I miss him already! God bless... P.S. hopefully this even makes sense cause my heart and mind are racing. MY anxiety was doing so well and now it is back some~
