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Re: The New Xue Review xuesheng #1100044 06/16/07 12:55 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,108 CA X xuesheng OP Member
OP xuesheng Member X Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,108 CA	Well I'm happy to say that our R seems to be getting playful. Maybe even flirtatious. Not sure. We had a very stressful week but we clung together and made it through it. However I get pushed away pretty quickly if I try to pull her close and kiss her. Hopefully that changes very soon. Xue 50-60% of marriages are successful New thread

Re: The New Xue Review xuesheng #1101853 06/18/07 05:11 PM
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SvenTheRed Member S Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 693 Cow Hampshire	GO Xue! That is all. Sven Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair. Trying to Piece

Re: The New Xue Review SvenTheRed #1103715 06/19/07 10:12 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,108 CA X xuesheng OP Member
OP xuesheng Member X Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,108 CA	Thanks Sven, I moved over to the SSM forums. Not sure where I'm supposed to be. But I'm happy to say the movement over the past few days has definitely been towards the positive. Been stressful lately but the stress seems to be bonding us rather than tearing us apart. And the stressful situation is coming to a close anyway. It's all good Maybe I'll be drinking that celebratory Opus One I have stashed away soon. Xue 50-60% of marriages are successful New thread

Re: The New Xue Review xuesheng #1105070 06/20/07 09:06 PM
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Phoenix_spark Member P Joined: Oct 2004 Posts: 1,653	Just keep at it. Sooner or later you will beat the problem, or find out the aspect you haven't addressed yet.

Re: The New Xue Review Phoenix_spark #1105559 06/21/07 05:00 AM
Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,119 Sweden N NewHorizons Member
NewHorizons Member N Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,119 Sweden	Xue, One step at a time, one hand hold, one kiss....slowly foward. You're a master of calm in this and just keep pushing slowly, slowly...it sounds like she's slowly melting. Buy that little girl a piece of candy! $\:\)$ OTB Me - 47 Her - 46 4 kids, 2 still at home

Re: The New Xue Review NewHorizons #1106413 06/21/07 08:49 PM
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OP xuesheng Member X Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,108 CA	"or find out the aspect you haven't addressed" Yeah I've done that about a hundred times. Getting to be quite the norm now. Personal development seems to be like a ship. Takes a whole lot to get going but as the momentum picks up it tends to want to stay in motion. I seem to have a full head of steam as I learn new things and gain deeper understandings each day. W is on the same path. Objects in motion tend to stay in motion "Piece of candy? Does a shiny red convertible with a 5.0 liter count. Just got her one of those. Hand holding has been taboo throughout this but kissing OK. The kisses seem to be like a gauge. I have to say the gauge is showing a bit more than luke warm lately. The other day at lunch I grabbed her hand as I kissed her. Seemed to be ok. Her body language has definetely changed towards me. Yep, slowly, aaaaarrrrghhhhhh, slowly. Xue 50-60% of marriages are successful New thread

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