UNBELIEVABLE~

[RedHeadWife]

Ali, I'm usually over in SSM and know you are close w/ Lou.

I'm so sorry that this has happened. I know you are kind of stuck right now b/c you want to know what's going on, but at the same time, you don't want to ask.

My H has had numerous A's as well. He dropped the bomb in January. I was able to get us to stay together and he's now deployed for a year. I don't have time to go back and read your other posts right now -- where is your H right now? I did read about you going to visit him and having such an awesome time.

I guess maybe you need to think about addressing his drinking? I know I sometimes still wonder if H is still 'talking' to OW, but I have had to let that go and deal w/ my feelings/emotions over everything that has happened. It sucks, but like it's always said on here, we need to get ourselves good and then everything will be good, no matter what happens.

You have been working and doing awesome w/ that so I think you need to just (as much as it sucks) keep going on 'as if' you didn't find anything.

Tell me your sitch again about where he is and how often you see him.