Glad you're handling things well. I have to say...I sort of agree with Swashy. I think he's doing the D b/c he thinks he'll never make you happy. He expressed his feelings...whatever it is, he interprets your needs as controlling. Now, those are HIS feelings, not yours, but you have to ask yourself, Why?
You'd emailed me about some things H had done lately...and I'm wondering if your avoidance is what makes him think he can't measure up so a D is what's necessary. I don't know.
What I do know is you have to take care of yourself and be at peace with whatever happens. Just thoughts I had...no judgment, just thoughts, okay sweetie?
Be happy, be well.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
