Hummmm.... when your wife spoke about hoping the girls be good women like herself you probably should have said... "Well, you are a role model for them and I'm sure they will probably learn from that and make similar choises."
ROOT next time my W emails me I am going to let you respond for me. You are right this would have been a great way for me to say something great about my W to my W and not look like I am trying to win her over.
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Gosh, this is great she wants to see MIL!!! That's positive. I would encourage that. It's family
I believe that my mom will actually go hangout with my W and girls. Although it seems unuasually to my mom, she would be doing it to see the girls. My responce to my parents and anyone else for that matter is to try and treat my W the same as always. She is still the mother of my kids and that will never change. Try to love her as best you can. That is the message that I am delivering to people who know.
As for the Reese Witherspoon movie, I saw that years ago on a date with my W. Maybe I should watch it again to get some pointers.
I did see a movie tonight with a friend of mine. We went and saw Pirates III. This was again another reminder for me of my W. I saw the first two on dates with her. Tonight I saw it with one of my buddies. Not that I don't love my friend, but it is much different seeing a movie with him instead of my W.
Tomorrow I am going golfing in the morning with a buddy of mine and then heading into the city to hangout at the beach. Sunday is my day so I will have the girls all day, church in the morning, lunch with my parents, and then whatever I decide after that.