No he never got help and see that is why I amafraid he will always be like this... alo he drinks waaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much lately over there. I feel sick and I so appreciate your reply. And the scary thing is I do not want to bring it up b/c I always used to snoop to look for "clues" and he used that as his excuse to do wrong cause I was a nag etc etc and now he has no excuse and what scares me more is if she is being demanding then I "think/assume" he slept with her or are they that demanding right away? Also he had me take his phone the days I was with him for hours on end and left it in my purse the rest of the time it just doesnt add up. NOONE called as far as I knew.

How can I be so naive and love a man that is so unwell? I honestly thought he was better and evrything was great. I looked at our 3 kids today and just wanted to CRY!

I am sacred and yet I am getting angrier by the minute and I dunno how he can live with himself. He is far too jealous to ever let me go anywhere alone and just yesterday when my S16 answered the phone I was in a great mood at 10 pm and had music blaring and he was uptight and asked where I was , I said I am at home listening to music. I know I will not say anything when he calls in the morning ( it wil be so hard,, but he will justturn it around or lie) for the directions he asked me for earlier today and yet I want to punch him and I dont even know how to fight~

I feel so frustrated and just wish I had it in me to say goobye til ....

REALLY I DO as much as I love him I dont want to live liek this forever. To me that is not a Marriage and I told him last time if you do this again I will ahve to know what to do cause I acnnot go thru this ever again that was in december!!!!!!!!!!!!

........you are well which may be never.
ADDICTION problem for sure ......is there even a cure?
GOD bless and thank you slowly for your post.. I was getting ready to blow up into a million pieces. THIS IS TOOOOOOOOOOOO much.... I just want some normalcy not this every year.
He has cheated far too much and he must think it is ok as long as I dont know and he thinks I am Happy! Sick and truly sad and heartbreaking.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!