2940,
It is good to hear from you. And that things are going better. At least baby steps. Keep your head and stay strong.

It is really strange his reaction. Its like a cloud is lifted off his shoulders and he wants to be best friends and supportive but I know he doesn't want to reconcile. He still calls about 4 or more times a day to see how things are going. It is very hard knowing that he is completely done and has some one new but still cares enough to call. No wonder my mind was on such a roller coaster. It does feel better to make a decision one way or another Whether it is right or wrong and its a long time till fall when we will make the split. Thank you so much for the support and for caring...You take care toooo

I read on an email the other day and I am tempted to put it on my phone. It said

Sorry I missed your call.
Thanks for caring enough for calling.
I am making some changes in my life right now and if I don't return your call you know you were one of the changes....

Thanks YOYO We all need to look out for our kids and ourselves right now. H'S are not thinking at all clearly or for anyone else but them selves.
Deep gaining baby steps Chicki....Patience is the key....

What you think,
well its late Just wanted to tell you THank you.