Matilda, I'm so sorry. It's interesting that you say that your DD wants everything settled now. I don't know how many times my DDs have said that, especially the 19 year old. I thought it was just my DD being a little insensitive. I guess they just get so tired of the turmoil.
Another thing we have in common is that my H didn't confide in anyone either. His best friend and his cousin who is like his brother heard it from their wives and didn't believe it. One of his friends said that people kept asking him what was going on with us, he said I don't know because he hasn't talked to me.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
