I am in agreement, watch & wait. DON'T, whatever you do, start chasing/begging/pleading again. You need to just continue on getting on with your life. Then, if and when she truly does come around, you will be in a better place. You need to like yourself by yourself and then whatever happens will be ok. I don't know about the dating thing. If she's not "the one" anyway, how does she feel about your R? If she's just "hanging out" with you as well, then I think it's ok to continue seeing her.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10