Yeah, that dude did the right thing. His W is loving him right now!
Naw bro. They're loving each other. And that's what it's all about.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Yeah, that dude did the right thing. His W is loving him right now!
Naw bro. They're loving each other. And that's what it's all about.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Yeah, that dude did the right thing. His W is loving him right now!
Naw bro. They're loving each other. And that's what it's all about.
Yeah right ! ! !
Well acutally not yet, ride down was about as quite as you could get, only one rude comment from her, and that was directed towards S, which pissed me off. He asked us to hold hands while I was driving, which is fine, and I knew she wouldn't which is okay, but she turned to our S and said "I didn't hold hands with him when we were together why would I now." I could see him in mirror and he was crushed, and I was biting lower lip.
We got here and she went straight to bed. S and I got up at 5 am to hit the golf course. Been back for 2 hours, haven't seen or heard from W, her parents said that they did not know where she went. We are in her hometown, which makes my mind race with her missing, they said she left about 4 hours ago.
I did win the cannon ball contest against S just a few minutes ago, so that was fun.
I am still having fun and not expecting anything from W, so all is good.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
No expectations...hard to get disappointed. Enjoy the quality time with son and make the best of it.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
No expectations...hard to get disappointed. Enjoy the quality time with son and make the best of it.
So very true, but being invited by her, I guess I did have some hope that it would be at least friendly. Not that it still won't be, it is still early in the trip. Found out her sister is missing too, which means they are doing what they do best, shopping.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Seriously dude, what the HELL are you doing on the computer????
Work the parents, work the IL's, work everyone - show them the new you, socialize, be nice, chit-chat. Not only do you get points from her family, but it's good practice for when the W is there!
Get after it man, good luck!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Parents are staying out of it, no asking them anything, I have tried. When I was on earlier they were taking a nap. She went out tonight for her Bday with friends from town, I was not invited so I am here by myself, YEAH
I am remembering fast, no expectations.
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M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Don't ask them things, they're not going to go "against" their daughter, just show them your changes, hang out, chit-chat, pay attention to them - be cool about it, but be THE MAN.
Your W will be back, it may not even be about hanging out this weekend for her. It MAY just be about you being there for her and your S. THEN, when you get back, you've shown her something, that she can depend on you to be there for her. baby steps man, baby steps...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
