Choc, I still am in disbelief that she's going through with all of this. I understand the "la la land" thing. MLC or something!! I know you need to do what you need to do and sometimes it's better to think "realistically" - at least that's what I do most of the time - I still think she's going to come out of this. Like I said before, I hope it's just not too late at that point to rebuild your R/M.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10