MJP, I'm with you I think your wife is having second thoughts. If she wanted the D that bad she would be gang busters for it. It could be over and done with by now. My W was hot to get it done, and then about mid April the wheels came of the wagon. My advice is to just "watch and wait" and continue to do what you're doing. HD does make a pretty convincing case about dating other people but the issue he doesn't address is: what if you fall in love with the OP or they fall in love with you and then your W wants to renconcile? Somebody that you care about or cares about you is going to get hurt-bad. I'm just saying, it isn't as cut and dried as old Homer makes it out to be. good luck with your sitch.
