While i could still use some help with the situation on how to handle my wife treating me like a buddy and not a husband, i have more excitment to deal with.
New update concerning seperation plans. My wife talked to my 15 yr old stepdaughter, and she was uncomfortable with the idea of staying in the house when my wife was gone. So, now my wife is frustrated again, because she is stuck again. She said 'i'm tired of this, i just want to finish it and be done with it.' I think its more of a fact that she has to deal with the fact she has a teenage daugther and can't simply live the single life 50% of the time. I'm not sure how see approached talking to my step daughter about it, or if she explained what the other options were. Its one thing to say 'no i don't want to' when asked about something, but its another when handed 3 equally crappy options and told to choose 1. I'll be honest i'm a little hurt she wouldn't want to stay in the house when her mom was not here, but I can totally understand, and would not force the subject with her.
I have no idea what is going to come of this. I'm tired of it. I love my wife with all my heart, but to have her continually hurt me with biting comments and her disregard for my feelings is not something I signed up for.
