Funny, you keep saying how alike our situations are and you're right - only the opposite - My w is the extrovert and I'm more introverted. She thrives on being with other people and chatting and hanging out. I'm sure that's part of her unhappiness, as we haven't done a lot of that in several years.
Me, I've had the same 4-5 friends for 30 years! They're the best friends a guy could have, but they're all married and have their families with them, and I'm tired of dragging them down into my crap.

I just Mountain Bike, or Skateboard, or work out, or read, or pray. That's pretty much me if I'm not at work. It's helping, I'm getting to the point I don't think about W ALL the time. It is a bit liberating, but I def want to be with her RIGHT NOW. ;\)

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...