Well I think your love language is Quality Time as well. But what's different is how each of you defines Quality Time. For you it's just being together in what ever way possible. For her it may be much more specific and quality time with just the two of you where you are focusing on her. That may be why your validations of her so much the other night worked so well. You had time together and you were focused on her and her needs.
Now to play devil's advocate too. What if she dressed like that to show you how she's changed, a new woman and moving on?
Well what ever her reasons I suspect they may have been my devil's advocate reason consciously but subconsciously they were more yours. If you ask me both our wives do want to think they can fall back in love with us, that we can be that man for them again. But the pain of disappointment is still extremely strong.
It's up to us to be those men for ourselves, for our wives, for our children and for God!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
If you ask me both our wives do want to think they can fall back in love with us, that we can be that man for them again. But the pain of disappointment is still extremely strong.