Wife gone...Is there hope

[Nomopo]

Strange, think about the Dr book, if you read it...You dont fall out of love with someone.

I believe Michele's exact words were that this is one of the silliest ideas she has ever heard. I really latched on to that!

Sorry to gender-bash here...women are emotionally driven while men are logic driven

Which gender are you bashing? Both are strengths, both are weaknesses, no? If I had been more sensitive, more in tune emotionally, I might not be in this mess!

To summarize all this, her showing you everything is fine and dandy is validation to her that is doing the right thing...and maybe right now to her she is..but in time, something will surface that will more than likely blow your mind, and i have seen many BBers on here that will back all this up if you read them.

I hope, I hope, I hope . . .

Im not saying im right or wrong, because when it comes to Rs and Ms, there isnt any. there is just what makes both parties happy in the end.

And, thus, the search for soultions!! What works? What makes you both happy?

Whenever I reply to some else or try to help with what I have learnt, I get a nice feeling that I have helped someone think or see things a little more clear...So I hope you get that same feeling my friends

Oh yes. And it is selfish. I want to feel better about myself by helping, and I want to let the lessons sink in by repeating them. Hopefully, it's a win-win!

Strange, you are doing GREAT! And thanks to you and Chevelle too. This has been a nice exchange today!

Nomopo