Thanks again guys...It's hard to think about our parters actually hurting. I admit that I have not really given it much thought. But when you sit & think about it, they most likely do hurt to a degree. I know I have thought, why would she hurt?, she's the one that chose to go, has friends giving her support & backing up her theory that i'm a dic......not so nice guy But she's hardly going to be showing any hurt, sadness or pain when she was the one that wanted out, she's going to be showing she's fine & dandy.
Which I suppose is what confuses our partners when we inturn appear to be as happy or infact happier then they are
It amazes me still, that when you think you know enough, along comes a post/poster that supplys info that you just did not think about...