Hi Going Solo - Thanks for the info. I just talked to my phone coach Jody and she gave me a lot of helpful info to get me started. This whole process is so draining. One of the toughest things I need to figure out is if I truly love this process enough to keep on fight when everyone is telling me to stop. I love her and want to fight for her love. Later, I will figure out if she really loves me. This is going to be a long, bumpy ride, but it's definitely worth it.