I've been so impressed with you as a person of character. You are a devoted parent, and an asset to your community as a teacher, and volunteer. You're a great package as a W.
I can't imagine any imperfections you bring to the R, that can't be accepted or worked-thru. Your H is a wounded man who lacks the skills and maturity to be in a M at this time.
I'm sorry. I know you've been looking for some signs of hope, which never came. This is not your failure.
I understand your decision to let them file for D. I too don't want to be the one that ends the M.
CL
Last edited by Concerned_Listener; 06/15/0704:30 PM.
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."