I have been looking at match.com for weeks now. Not wanting to actually date but I day dream about what it would be like to have someone love and desire me again. I feel guilty for doing this!
I also make way too much eye contact with other women when that look at me. I am drifting away from her quickly.
Hi, AN.
Don't do that. You are looking for an affection switch to minimize your pain. That is unfair to you, and your girlfriend, and the new person you direct your attentions at.
Face you situation head on and deal with it. Then you lick your wounds, get healed up and go out to find a person more suitable. You need to figure out what it is you AREN'T seeing in the women you pick, and get that fixed in you. There are good women out there that aren't all spit and polish (image) rather that are open and honest.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
