Dana - that's fine. Making sure that he knows what you would expect to save the M isn't for him...it is for you. I wouldn't want to see you walk away without laying your cards on the table. If you feel like you have put them out there and that he understands them...than that is all I care about. It's all about closure darling. And in no way should you ever accept less...just don't expect it all at once either.