When i think that H is distancing and i wonder if im'e doing something wrong I have been trying to stop the thought and think how far we have come and realise that he is still working on him and if he had made all of his choices He would be #1 gone or #2 done working on him and working more on us. Right now i'll take the working on him because i know he can't give 100% to the R when he is still confused to a point. I am taking what he said about OW at face value right now, that they do not talk anymore because there is no proof of it otherwise and that is my boundry. (I won't tolerate any more contact since he has said there is nothing more). so H working on him is ok.
Can you understand what im'e saying here? Not very good at putting thought into words sometimes.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
