"Hey Dana...very well said. Couple of things as I read through it. The first part of what you wrote talks about what he did wrong. You talk about throwing his stuff in the lawn, etc...but you don't talk about what you did in regards to the breakdown of the M. Which is fine...I just find it interesting."
Yep... was starting at the affair with my journaling story. What I did wrong happened before that (not that I handled the affair correctly, but regarding helping our marriage deteriorate to that point). I think I talked about that in my posts yesterday. I didn't meet his needs. And I didn't communicate mine effectively. And I retreated then in ways that were unhealthy and made the marriage break down further.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
