KS, I don't know about you, but in hindsight I set myself up for that. People don't appreciate what is just handed to them over and over again. I had this romantic notion that this is what love was all about, to be there and take care of your S and it will be returned in kind. The more I gave the more the love would flow. Uh Uh. It's a little more complicated than that. Live and learn, I guess!