Thanks Nara, I won't beat myself up! But, I am willing to acknowledge my part in what happened to my M. The key is to look at the mistakes and not repeat them. I was a truly good H but I had flaws (tried too much to please and accomidate) and that is my personal work, to come to terms with it and change it. A R cannot be based on one person and I allowed that to happen way too much. But, despite that, she's losing a love she can never replace...her loss.
