SDKC, Angry....No worries.....

Last night I had my girls at home and had a good friend of mine come to the house with his two kids. We grilled, drank a few beers, watched the kids and had a good time.

My W called a few times while everyone was at the house. The first call she tolded me that she had hoped that everyone would have left and that I could bring the girls to her work for desert(No, not going to happen). Then she called a couple more times to talk to my 5D.

I guess my W views/thinks of me as a nanny for our kids. In her mind I watch them and cart them around at her request. I don't think so.

I have no idea what her plans are for the next day or two. I will have to play it by ear since this is her weekend, accept I get our girls on Sunday(Fathers Day).

Another strange thing that my W did yesterday was ask my mom to go with her and our girls to the pool next week. My mom obviously finds this request to be very strange. She basically said "my DIL wants nothing to do with my son, but she wants me to hangout with her and the girls". My mom doesn't understand her either, I wonder why.

I think this is my W's way of trying to make things easier on our DD's. Or does this behaviour make life easier on her? Or is she still trying to hang onto the life that she is leaving behind? Any way it is messed up.

-ERC


Me - 30
2 girls- 3,6Current