I know this must be frustrating for you...but keep reminding yourself that she knows what you need, you've told her...it's not like she is unaware. So don't go back to her and try to explain your needs again....I have a feeling that's probably bubbling under the surface with you (the temptation to go re-explain how important this is.) I say that, because I've BTDT myself...I'd often question whether my H really "got it", or whether I actually got across the importance of what I was saying.
