Today is not such a good day, I got the first mention of Devorce today. I say it's not so good because I got this via text message (SMS). She could'nt even be botherd to call me & say, hey we need to talk. Nope, I got the sms that says..."Need to talk to you about what you think on getting things sorted out with the divorce stuff"
Firstly I am not happy about marching onward & upward with this but I am comfortable with it & will not fight it. Second, & I would like some opinions on this...As it is now I will not except talking about this via sms or phone call. I have no problems in facing my W & talking about it this & going with it ( acting happily). My wife on the other hand appears to have issues with facing me & I see that as her problem that she must deal with. I would like to say to her, sure,no problem, we can talk either in this house or at a location of her choice but not by phone call.
As with my new improved self, I am always trying to see the positives in all situations that life throws my way, not sure about the positive/s in this just yet lol, but i'm sure there will be some.
Anyway I would like some thought/advice on how to handle this when or if my W agrees to see me & talk.
My game plan right now is to be exactly the way I have been up to now & thats happy & up-beat about it all. Which I must say at the moment, it appears that apart from making me feel better, the only effect it's had on my W, is she now thinks I'm ready her next phase of this mess
Well hope someone will help out a slightly confused strange
