I haven't had any time to catch up on your sitch, but from your thread title, we have both been going through this for about the same time.
I am through also. I held on and tried to help my h and my marriage, but he is still involved with ow and I am not doing this anymore. They can have each other. At this point, they deserve each other.
We can all hang our heads high. We fought for what we believed in. We stood by our spouse's after they hurt us over and over. We are strong, great people and no one can take that away from us. We will find happiness again.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."