CF, it's brutally hard. But space is key for some reason. I guess they need to miss us, I guess they need to be able to think without us there. I don't get it, I do better when she's here, but she does better when I'm not????
I don't understand it, but I'm trying. we'll make it one of these days. Somehow, time is on our side...
I still have a problem understanding how this works, the longer I am away the easier I think it would be to forget me. Not arguing that it doesn't work, just confusing logic.
I don't get it either, but Amy was very right about one thing, if I'd been able to be with my wife at all during that first few weeks after the PO, I'd be D'd already. When things pile up to the point that they don't know what to do other than D, getting some space and time to think helps them somehow. I don't get it, I'm just forced to do it, and it seems to be OK for some reason. My W is thinking about giving our family another chance, so that's a positive. Better than, "I just want to sign and get this over with."
And you're nowhere near that place, your W really just needs some time to process her feelings it seems like.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
