frank - yeah it would be cheaper and for sure better on the girls, whatever happens between my wife and I, i feel this would be easier on them. As far as being better or worse than a standard seperation as far as our chances for reconciliation, i don't know. Anybody have any thoughts?
I haven't really thought about the OM being at my home away from home, but right now I am trying to imagine it and I'm not feeling too jealous/angry of the possibility. I'm not sure why i'm not. I do think i should think about it some more though.
I would definately insist on at least a 2 bedroom, and seperate beds though.
