I remember the Africa trip last year. We all thought things were going to be good until you found out the ow went with him. I still had alot of hope. You sound so done, my friend and I am so sorry for all your pain.
I understand about how awful you felt when your GS thought it was your h. My GD used to come into the house and ask where grandpa was. It used to kill me! My h used to be so close to her. I hope that it will all come back for them again. She loves him so much.
When is the next hearing? Hang in there, you are doing so great!!!! Your in my prayers!
