You do sound good and seeing the smile on your face in the pics from the Grand Prix, I can tell that you are feeling good about yourself too.
This has been a difficult journey and look how far you have come. You are a strong and awesome woman and mother. Take all the time you need to spoil yourself. You deserve it. When you are really ready for another R, you will know it.
H cheating on gf? Why doesn't that surprise me? He is spiraling. I think this is proof that it isn't about you. He will cheat on any woman because he doesn't understand commitment. I recall you saying that he was committed to her. When was that? Oh yea, about 3 weeks ago?
His actions are NOT your responsibility. I know you feel bad about H's gf getting hurt but she got herself into that sitch.
Much love to you too, ISLH
Me: 49 - S22 & S26 H: 41 - No kids M: 10/00 Bomb New Year's Day 2006 H living w OW 01/07; have baby 12/07 D final 07/07 Thread #9 - Hope Lives On
