Honestly .... I couldn't do that. I would never be able to lay my head down or be comfortable in a place where I wasn't sure if my H had possibly had the OW at. Can you imagine it?? It's not like you can actually trust them to tell you the truth if they are or not...most of the time they're already lying about the whole situation in the first place.
I just don't think I could do it. When I went through my separation...we had our own space. I needed the things that were mine around me....and he had his own place. Neither one was home...when we finally got back together, we bought a new home and started fresh.
M-38 H-40 MLC S15 A started in 5/05 S in 12/05 D in 05/06 re-M in 07/06 A FINALLY over as of 5/07