Root is actually a better description because I'm no longer running out of time (since the divorce was stopped), and I now feel pretty rooted in who I am and my life.
Actually my husband was the crazy one to file twice.... but I'm the even crazier one to still be here married to him!!! Anyhow, it does seem like my husband and I are finally on a much smoother ride now. Things are well. Little bumps, but we both seem to be able to ride them out much better.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
