No earth-shattering news .. just keeping my thread alive as promised.
A couple of interesting things:
I found out that shortly after my H returned from South Africa last summer, he was flashing around pictures of himself and the OW to several of his co-workers. He boasted that he and I were already divorced and that the divorce had cost him $1 million!!! Hmmm ..
Also:
My SIL said that H has been "hiding" the OW in a remote motel in another state for the past six weeks b/c she was afraid she would be subpoenaed to the D hearing. My L postponed the hearing, so it looks like she will be underground for awhile longer. The funny part is, my SIL knew the name of the motel and was very happy to tell me. I personally don't care, but my L might need to know at some point.
Strangely, I feel very disconnected from H right now .. like he was never my H, just someone from my past whom I don't like very much. I don't hate him and I hope that he gets the help he needs, but after the D is over, I don't want him in my life.
