Hey, Kim. I know we've missed the chance to talk a few times since you've been back what with me working on the house all the time or "piecing my butt off" as someone once said....
Glad the trip was good. Sorry the return was not so good!
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Should I call Michele & tell her what just happened?
Couldn't hurt.
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Should I get the D papers in order?
I would always to be prepared, but don't file yourself, unless it's what you really, really want to do. Have the information you need in order, and if you decide to talk to a lawyer to try to get the info you need from him, that's okay, but you don't have to file until you've decided enough is enough.
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Should I cancel next wks' appt. W/Michele knowing he probably won't go?
I would wait and see - you might be sure he won't go, but you can't know for sure. Did he say forget it? Can't hurt to wait and see.
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Should I go dark? I'm already detached except for the kids stuff!
I would say yes, definitely go dark for a bit. Must cool off!!!
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Is there a point of no return & i've hit it?
Sadly, only you can make that decision, as you're the one who's committed to the M! I wish we could help you more with that!
But we'll support you no matter what you decide!
Oh, yeah - almost forgot to mention that I think it's great that you and the kids are going to have counseling together. They are certainly affected in ways that your H may not understand, and you are a great mom, so keep up the good work!!
