Hey Eddy. I'm glad you posted about this gal inviting you on a lunch or coffee date. It seems as though you're giving this careful thought and I'm sure you'll do what is right for you. We are so deserving of good company but also so vulnerable right now. To make decisions that will serve us well into the future takes real effort. Keep your goals in mind when making these decisions and set boundaries for yourself beforehand.... my $.02
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.