She shared her feelings and didn't talk about the D.
She's not done man.
Oh she talked about the D. Did I not share that in the first post. At first she said, "I just want you to sign and be done." I said, "OK." She said, "You'll sign right away?" I said (no less than 5 times last night I swear) "If you'll be happier getting D'd rather than giving our family one more chance, ALL I ever wanted was for you to be happy."
She didn't once follow up with, "OK, I'll have my L send the papers over." Or, "Good, we'll get that done right away, I will be happier." It was either, "How can I give YOU another chance????" or no response. That also went away about an hour into the convo. After that it was her struggle to give us another chance, and her sharing a lot of hurt feelings with me. And then it ended with, "I'll think about it." With regards to taking some baby steps like calling me to chat so she can get her LL spoken to her. So she can fill her emotional tank.
At least that went in a positive direction. But can you imagine trying to DB for 3 straigh hours, no rest? I would have gone all night if she had wanted...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
