I know Speed. I just see it on here time and time again. People who find someone else and then give up on their M. I just don't personaly think that is right. That is what most of our WAS do. They find something easier and fun and they chose that instead of what actualy may be the right choice.
Thanks Jen...just makes me nervous I guess. It has been so long.
You know..I've thought about telling the W. But I don't think I will. I asked her point blank if she was seeing or wanted to see OM when we first seperated. She said that she wasn't but that she wanted to but didn't think it was fair...well guess what? She already was. So I really don't see any reason to bing it up. If she asks, I will tell..I will not lie...but I also think that if I were to tell her...then she would just take it as some ploy to get her back anyway. It's not. This is about me. I have suffered for so long. I have gone without. I just want some company.
This girl is sweet, nice, smart pretty and I just have a lot of respect for her and how she has lived her life. She has never treatd me wrong and we have known each other since HS.